It’s finally here, I can already
feel the love! Recently, I was having a “what would you get for
Valentine’s Day?” conversation with a close male friend of mine.
Immediately I asked what he was giving his girlfriend this year, he
started listing like he’d been rehearsing it all his life: “A 12
inch Cake from Bakers World, a ‘SeeByChloe’ Perfume by Chloe”, some
chocolates, tickets to Darey’s ‘love: like a movie’ concert and I’m
still trying to buy the Z10 Blackberry she said she wanted.“
I think his precision in listing all
those items so well is rooted in the number of times his girlfriend
repeated them in his ear.
Come to think of it, ladies, do you
think that maybe, just maybe, we have gotten so used to being on
the receiving end that we’ve forgotten how to give? Do you notice how
the guys hardly ever get excited when Valentine’s Day comes around? Why
do you think that is? To get my answer, I decided to do a small Survey
with celebrities and regular guys, where I asked them what they would
really want for Valentine’s Day. This is what the guys had to say.
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Dr Sid
Dr Sid
Dr Sid is a Doctor,
Musician and recently turned Confectioner who believes that
relationships are the center of Valentine’s Day. We caught up with him
for a brief interview on what Valentine’s Day means to him, his
experiences and plans for the magical day.
What do you want for Valentine’s day?
To be honest I’m not really picky when it comes to gifts. I believe it’s more about the thought than the actual gift.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl?
I think Valentine’s Day is about the relationship(s) you have. Two
people expressing or reaffirming their feelings for each other; it’s not
about HIM or HER, but about THEM.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
I can’t say I’ve received a gift that I would say was bad because,
like I said, it’s not really about the gift. Although if I had to say
what my least favorite gift was, it would have to be having no one to
share Valentine’s Day with (if you get what i mean)
What are your plans for the special day?
During our brief interview when we asked the Mavin member, all he said was ”Its private…” It must be very special if he doesn’t want anyone to know about it.
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ENEANYA CHUKWUEMEKA
Its about to go down!!!! This Nigeria said youngest Enterprenuer in his early 20's believes appreciation is what
the 14th of February is all about. Find out what he thinks about
Valentine’s Day and his perfect gift.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
A Rolex Wrist Watch and a Kiss ‘Lol’
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl ?
Nooo! Yess No Yes No but yes. We all know it’s a day declared to show appreciation. if you have a special
person in your life I strongly advice you include her in the
activities. but it could be spent with Kids like i will do **WINK*
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
This is a hard one. No gotten a Valentine gift before
What are your plans for the special day?
visit the less-privileged
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Bryan Okwara
Bryan Okwara
Bryan oh Bryan! This Ex
Mr Nigeria turned Actor/Model believes love and appreciation is what
the 14th of February is all about. Find out what he thinks about
Valentine’s Day and his perfect gift.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
An ACURA hybrid ZDX 2012… ‘Lol’ but since I can’t have that, I want a
proper ‘TITANIC’ cruise ship weekend for 2. One that comes with the
Valentine suite, breakfast, ballroom dancing and all the perks.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl ?
Nooo! but yes. We all know it’s a day declared to show love and
appreciation. I focus on how I can channel that and make it happen for
others. Some people would choose to spend that time at charity homes or
at their parents or even just with strangers. But if you have a special
person in your life I strongly advice you include her in the
activities.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
This is a hard one. Well someone gave me a big box once. After
unwrapping it, all I found was a note saying “Knowing you got a gift is
what’s important…Not the gift itself” so I’m guessing that qualifies as
bad.
What are your plans for the special day?
Who says wishes don’t come true? I will be going on a cruise today.
*We gathered that Bryan will be spending
the rest of his Valentine’s at an orphanage home in Ghana, photos will
be available soon*
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Efe Tommy
Efe Tommy
Who wants a Bible for Valentine’s? Check out what else the ‘Xcite on Tv‘ show host, Efe Tommy, wants for Valentine’s Day.
What do you want for valentine’s day?
A Bible and a fragrance or a wrist watch.
Do you think Valentine’s day is all about the girl?
No. Everyday for me is about love. Love to true friends, love to family, love to “her” and love to myself.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
Yes, I got a pack of singlets and boxers. Please, I can buy that
myself. I think I deserve to be gifted something more tangible. And the
thing about this gift is that I liked the girl so much that I didn’t
even care about it then. But when she broke my heart, I began to see all
her faults. ‘Lol’
What are your plans for the special day?
I just relocated to South Africa, so I will be spending it alone.
And as usual, I’ll also be enjoying scenery of the beautiful city.
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Gbenro Ajibade:
Gbenro Ajibade
Forget what you’ve seen on Tinsel, Gbenro
is actually a die hard romantic. During our brief interview with the TV
Star he tells us about his plans for Valeitine’s Day that had us going “awww”.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
Truth be told, It’ll honestly be perfect if “she” promises to
continue being loyal to our friendship; that means she’ll be my ‘bestie’
for life! Because right now my girlfriend has got all the qualities I
crave from a friend.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl?
From my point of view and experiences I’ve had, YES!
On a good day, entertainers, especially male entertainers, tend to
overlook the quality time and mood that brings closure and understanding
of our spouses. So Valentine’s Day should be all about the girl! It
should be more or less like an anniversary no matter how small the
celebration or short the relationship is. In fact, left to me, it should
be more than once a year just like the weather: Winter Valentine’s Day,
Fall Valentine’s Day and even Summer Valentine’s Day.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
Well BN, truth be told, this is the second Valentine’s Day I am
actually acknowledging. So you can imagine what last year, being the
first, was like. But keep in mind that the plans and arrangements I’m
making this time around are already making last year’s Valentine’s look
like child’s play.
What are your plans for the special day?
I’m taking her on a romantic trip to a surprise country. She doesn’t
know where we are going yet and I cant tell you so she won’t read it
here first. She’ll figure it out at the airport. I’m really looking
forward to this.
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Ayodeji Rotinwa
Ayodeji Rotinwa
Deji, a Columnist/
Correspondent for This Day Style, thinks anything engraved is a
Valentine’s Day must have. He also strongly believes that giving boxer
briefs for Valentine’s Day is about the most unromantic thing ever.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
Well something engraved would be nice. It could have that
personalized touch of maybe my name or something that’s significant to
me. It could be anything, as long as it’s engraved, so I know it’s real.
It’s unusual but that’s what I want.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl?
No, I don’t think Valentine’s Day should be all about the girl, even
the focus is always on her. Love should be shared or showed both ways.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
Yes. It was boxer briefs. It wasn’t exactly romantic and it gave me mixed signals.
What are your plans for the special day?
I’m having dinner with my single friends. After work we are going to go out and stuff ourselves.
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Luke Ifeoluwa
Luke Ifeoluwa
The only thing this Tax Administrator
wants from you this Valentine’s Day is something he can use at work.
Plus check out why he hasn’t gotten a bad gift so far.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
First off, a Valentine’s date won’t be bad. ‘lol’ Apart from that, I
always appreciate things I could definitely use. It could be a nice
belt or some cool shoes for the office, something I can wear to work.
Better still, perfume, something I know people will admire.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl?
At all! Its all about the family and friends in your life. A day of showing love not just for the exchange of gifts.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
I haven’t gotten any bad gift so far. I appreciate anything as long as it’s coming from someone I like.
What are your plans for the special day?
Well I can’t really say, who knows? Besides I’m not in the country and all my ladies are back home *wink*
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Nnamdi Eke
Nnamdi Eke
Funny, charismatic and looking for a Valentine to spend his day with. Nnamdi is a business man who thinks houses made of money are the perfect gift.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
I want a house made of exactly 1 million dollars and a car!!! Just
kidding! If it’s from my relatives I definitely want a new car. But if
it’s from a girl; a nice pair of shoes, shades, a nice wallet or some
corporate shirts would do. I know she would want her man looking nice.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is all about the girl?
Nahh!!! never about just the girl. It’s a two-way thing.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
Well, once I was expecting a gift from someone and I got nothing. To me that’s as bad as it gets.
What are your plans for the special day?
I’ll probably hang out with anyone that shows interest or treat myself right. After all I am my first love.
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Ademide Odutayo
Ademide Odutayo
Ademide is a young
chemical engineer who hates Maltesers (when they’re his Valentine’s
gift) and knows a wrist watch would definitely make his Valentine’s Day
special.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
I definitely want a wrist watch or a lovely pair of shoes. Something
that makes a statement and looks really cool. There’s actually this
wristwatch I want. Should I show you a picture? Just in case.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is about the girl?
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about the girl, it’s a day that has been
dedicated to love. You are to love everyone and not just the girl. For a
husband, he is to love his entire family and single guys or girls
should love their family and spouse if they have one.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
When I was in my first year I got a pack of maltesers…sad story
What are your plans for the special day?
I don’t really think I’m going to do anything oh! I actually don’t have plans.
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Dolapo
Dolly P
Who loves to smell nice? Dolapo
does. The accountant whose Ex thinks cleanliness is the best policy,
thinks Valentine’s Day should definitely be about the relationship.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
Well I love perfumes…and that’s all I want. I love to smell nice all
the time, so if I get a bottle of perfume, that would be fine.
Do you think Valentine’s Day is about the girl?
Hell No! It should be about the relationship, both of you and the love you share with each other.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
I got a pack of BYC singlets from a girl that claimed she liked me; and one time my ex gave me a shaver that cost 700 Naira.
What are your plans for the special day?
I’m single so don’t really have plans. ‘C’est la vie.’
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Eyitayo Olaegbe
Eyitayo Olaegbe
Eyitayo is
a Realtor who strongly believes in the day of love. To him, material
things don’t matter, all that matters is the day and those around him.
What do you want for Valentine’s Day?
A date would be nice…but if we are talking gifts then a pedicure
would be better. I’m not really materially inclined so I’m open
to surprises. It doesn’t really matter to me because I think everyday
should be like Valentine’s. Oh by the way, I love wristwatches ; )
Do you think Valentine’s Day is about the girl?
Well it’s about the day for me, the day of love . It is not an excuse for extortion or overrated ’expression of love’.
Have you ever gotten a bad Valentine’s Day gift?
I’ve never had a bad gift.
What are your plans for the special day?
Well I have work to do so I will be working, and I don’t close early. That’s my own E! ‘working’ wood story. *wink*