Seal — You're being big-time selfish! Telling the paparazzi — of all people — that you believe your ex, Heidi Klum, cheated on you with the family's bodyguard, Martin Kirsten, is victimizing four little people you love.
Yes, that would be daughters Leni, 8, and Lou, 2, as well as sons Henry, 6, and Johan, 5.
Aren't your children supposed to be the most important, precious thing in the world to you? Don't you want to protect them? You should. You're their dad.
That's why you have to hold in your anger for your ex, even if it's difficult. Yes, I'm sure it's very hard to see Heidi moving on with her life. You had many happy years together. However, that ended in a separation last January.
Now both of you are free to take the next steps in your lives — including romantically. Still, you are clearly upset and jealous that Heidi is getting involved in a new relationship.
And again, that's normal and understandable.
What isn't understandable, and is terribly wrong, is that you're lashing out verbally at the mother of your children in public.
It would be bad enough if you accused Heidi of cheating on you in private — and a source close to the situation assures penpointreview.blogspot.com exclusively that it's absolutely not true — but to do it in public is inexcusable.
You are straight up, flat out just hurting, upsetting and embarrassing your kids. It's already traumatic for children to have their parents divorce. Their world is rocked. Children, of course, want their parents to be together for always.
But there's a lot that a mommy and a daddy can do to ease their anxiety. And one of the key things is to NOT attack each other nor try and put their children into the middle of a tug-of-war.
When you accuse Heidi of cheating and do it in front of the cameras for the world to see, you are telling your children that you don't care about their feelings, and also that want them to side with you against their mom.
That's just terrible. Kids are to be protected. They aren't pawns. Furthermore, you know that Heidi is a great mother and that your kids are the center of her universe.
You should be trying to be the best dad you can be for your darlings. It's time to zip your lips, apologize to Heidi and your kids for being a giant jerk, and then work on having the most positive relationship you can have with Heidi.
Believe me — I was a child of a bad divorce — and I know that your kids will thank you if you do that.
What do you think, HollywoodLifers? Should Seal shut up and apologize?
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