Love at first sight is a widely debated notion.We are all familiar with stories and movies of ‘’Boy meets girl’’ , heart races, pupil dilates ,butterflies in the stomach and as they say, the rest is history.
I really don’t think it’s possible to really fall in love with
someone at first sight,but am quite sure there’s certainly such thing as
attraction at first sight..
Some years ago, I was in a queue trying to get registered in school. A
guy drove in and as he got out of the car.I don’t know what it was ,
and I was stuck .I stared at him for so long.After exchanging
pleasantries with some people, he drove off.
I was so tired that I decided to eat in one of the eateries in
school, when he walked into the eatery,I gasped for breath.well, I never
got to speak with him for once, and neither did I get to fall in love
with him. I later got to understand that I was just attracted to the
way he carried himself…his carriage ,confidence got my attention.
Just like me, we often get to meet strangers,we get so attracted to.
Often attimes,most people mistake this attraction for love .
I’m not denying the fact that attraction plays a major role to a
lasting relationship,but attraction itself is certainly not love.
You
can be attracted to someone by the way they look or the way they act;
however, to fall in love you have to get to know someone, and this takes
time. I don't believe in "love at first sight." I think true love is
something that grows and becomes stronger in time.
There is no way to tell if love at first sight is truly ‘’love’’
until it passes the test of time. Love at first sight to me is more like
an attraction or lust.
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